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Marriage counseling, also called couples therapy, is a type of psychotherapy. Marriage counseling helps couples of all types recognize and resolve conflicts and improve their relationships. Most of our complex emotional needs can be summarized as the need for love.
Men and women are unaware that they have different emotional needs. They do not know how to support each other. Men give in relationships what men want, while women give what women want. Each mistakenly assumes that the other has the same needs and desires.
men primarily needs:
✔ trust, ✔ acceptance, ✔ appreciation, ✔ admiration, ✔ approval, ✔ encouragement
women primarily needs:
✔ caring, ✔ understanding, ✔ respect, ✔ devotion, ✔ validation, ✔ reassurance
how can unknowingly turn off your partner
Without an awareness of what is important for the opposite sex, men and women don’t realize how much they may be hurting their partners. We can see that both men and women unknowingly communicate in ways that are not only counterproductive but may even be a turnoff. Men and women get their feelings hurt most easily when they do not get the kind of primary love they need. Women generally don’t realize the ways they communicate that are unsupportive and hurtful to the male ego. A woman may try to be sensitive to a man’s feelings, but because his primary love needs are different from hers, she doesn’t instinctively anticipate his needs.
The Art of Empowering a Man
discovering our different emotional needs
Couples therapy: Just as men need to learn the art of listening to fulfil a woman’s primary love needs, women need to learn the art of empowerment. When a woman enlists the support of a man, she empowers him to be all that he can be. A man feels empowered when he is trusted, accepted, appreciated, admired, approved of, and encouraged. Many women try to help their man by improving him but unknowingly weaken or hurt him. Any attempt to change him takes away the loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that are his primary needs. The secret of empowering a man is never to try to change him or improve him. Certainly you may want him to change-just don’t act on that desire. Only if he directly and specifically asks for advice is he open to assistance in changing.
COUPLES THERAPY | COUNSELING
Couples therapy: When a man can listen to a woman’s feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift. He makes it safe for her to express herself. The more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that he needs.